Family I Deserve

I desire to study for more than six years and I equally wish that my parents pay for my needs and passions, so as to allow them a chance or two to express the love for their child (I know him). It is all a matter of abstract expressions, nothing that concrete. Although, I have no desire whatsoever of living an absolute dependent life, I only prefer an interdependent one. I know when I'll have kids, I'd love to bestow on them material benefits as my parents do to me now. How can I make sure that I become such a father who is very generous, if I haven't experienced the mirth of taking and possessing? 

Knowledge of 'a' gives us the knowledge of 'b'. Not to reiterate my master's words, if black is not known how comes white be known? (It's an ABC thing, your maturity won't understand!)