I came to know about child conduct disorder from some notes of my classmate on criminal psychology, and immediately I found it to be useful. I have some young friends who are like brothers to me, and whom I watch to recall my own near-past, always thinking how I can make their emaan and ihsan better than I had. Most people of my age seemed to have developed tastes and interests too vile, sterile, and loathsome in their speech, rhetoric, and actions that thoughts of associating myself with them seem to be remote - I look for innocence and above human fitra. And I sometime childishly wonder if it really exists? Alhamdulillah it does. I see it in these kids, free of all prejudices, hatred, skepticism, kufr, and what really not. However, some of these friends of mine seem to have symptoms of conduct disorder, which if persist can in later stages of their lives turn into a serious problem called anti-social personality disorder. Now I am up to detecting if they really have any kind of conduct disorder, so that they can be sent to some good psychiatrists, who believe in counseling (and not primarily in medication). People generally here are very ignorant of psychological problems.
I think of this activity as more important than my studies, which are concerned with my future. I like to think that I would be relieved to relive my brothers who are in grievances. I would be happier by making their families proud of them. I would be elated by freeing them from depressions. A momin feels the the pain of another as his own, so how can he let the pain cripple his own body. With these spirits our social life is regulated, based on mercy, compassion, care and profundity.
And. No appreciation of the matter, i.e., psychological problems, may be made if we do not show this version of classical school bullying...
2 did criticisms:
Your approach is certainly the best. Preventive medicine is always more successful than remedial treatments. I don't know where you live. In Lahore? Develop a working knowledge of good psychologists around there. Professional counseling will InshaAllah work in these children's cases. These are really innocent children and certainly deserve a chance to learn how to manage a tendency that could be potentially harmful if left on its own course.
Thanks a lot for the helpful comment. Yes, i live in lahore. Can you email names + addresses of some good psychiatrists/psychologists, if possible?
You used a word "working knowledge". I am curious about it, as I have business genre book of same title.
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